Contributed by: Terry Matlen, ACSW
In exactly seven days from today, my youngest daughter
will be turning 21 years of age. For most families, this is a
milestone to be celebrated. Most 21 year olds celebrate this
momentous day in their lives by partying with friends, maybe even
living on the edge a bit by drinking a bit too much, driving a bit
too fast, spending too much money at the shopping mall or casino,
or taking a fun-filled weekend in a fast, hip city.
It's milestones like these, however, that
typically make me sad. For my daughter, Mackenzie, will be spending
her 21st birthday eating her favorite meal at her favorite
restaurant with family, most likely with her earphones on because
the din of the room will overwhelm her. There's a good chance that
she'll leave the table more than once- more than five times-
because even at her age, she's unable to sit still for long. She'll
probably insist on wearing her winter coat during her meal, because
her sensory needs dictate. A warm coat makes her feel calm and
safe.
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