When Parents Need a Vacation…without the guilt

Contributed by: Terry Matlen, ACSW

Today I dropped off my twenty year old daughter, who has ADHD and a variety of challenging disabilities, to the camp bus stop here in southeast Michigan. She'll be away for 23 days and 3 ½ hours, which equate to 555 1/2 hours (but who's counting?). This is her fifth year attending the special needs program that our wonderful, local camp developed for the dozen or so "special" campers that arrive each summer. Five years ago, when Mackenzie made her maiden voyage, I was a total, emotional wreck, worrying how she'd fare and whether she'd even keep it together long enough to get through the bus ride, or whether I'd get a phone call within hours to come pick her up.

For three weeks, I was practically tethered to the phone, waiting for that call to come. It never did. It turned out that my daughter had the time of her life.

The following year, I sent her again, still with a good dash of trepidation, worried that she'd have trouble getting through the session without having meltdowns bad enough to warrant her returning home. Nope, wrong again. And again and again.

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